One guy even said that he was thinking of leaving the site now that he's found me! Considering we haven't spoken in a week, and not much even before that, I find it absurd for him to say that to me! He offered to give me his phone number (which I don't want as I hate the thought of talking to people I barely know on the phone... I get far too easily flustered when I am put on the spot - and don't have proper time to think - so phone calls to virtual strangers are a no. Plus I don't want them to have my number, either!!)
It just strikes me as fairly presumptuous to think I'm "the one for you" when we haven't even met (and I really don't want to either!)
I often get asked "am I someone you think you could date?" How the hell can I answer that question? I've never dated anyone before and most of the people that ask it barely know me (yet call me princess, sexy, cuteness, darling or worst of all, babe! I HATE that one!!) How do I know if a man is someone I could date when I don't know them and have only seen a few blurry pictures at a dating site? I don't get it!
I guess the answer is plain really, if they can't be bothered to even get to know me before asking such a stupid question, then the answer from me should be a NO! Lol.
I'm not going to be rushed, bullied or pressured into meeting anyone before I at least know something about them and who they are. What is the all-fired hurry anyway? Is the world coming to an end and no one told me or something?
