Chris says:
Hey you
Minty says:
hiya
Chris says:
Having a good day?
Minty says:
not really, being surrounded by other people's screaming kids gets a little tiring after a while lol
roll on 6pm
Chris says:
hmm lol. you seem a bit lonely from your profile, but you seem really lovely
how are you finding the site generally? I've only been on for three weeks and been on a couple of dates
nobody with that spark yet though Minty! lol
Minty says:
I just re-read it and it does sound that way, lol
I've only been a member for about the same time, well a paid member, I joined a few years ago and did nothing about it lol
Chris says:
are you still single?
Minty says:
I'm one of those people that only feels lonely when I stop and think about it haha
yep, always have been
Chris says:
it is nice though to turn in with someone.. not to mention having a girl to bang haha. I split up with my ex late last year and don't like being single at all
always? what, you've never been in a relationship?!
Minty says:
I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you both
Chris says:
I'm not, she was awful
Minty says:
nope, I've never been fussed and no one has ever been interested either (so it worked out for the best haha)
oh... good news then... but not about the being single part
Chris says:
how come you've not been fussed?
Minty says:
I suppose because I've never be bothered about sex and usually prefer my own company lol
Chris says:
ah-ha
shall I leave you to it?
Minty says:
give me a good book and some rock music and I'm set
I do like talking to people, though
Chris says:
are you a virgin?
Minty says:
yep
I was told I was scary the other day because I admitted it lol
Chris says:
Do you masturbate?
Minty says:
not for ages
Chris says:
that is the strange bit
Minty says:
lol
Chris says:
do you get wet?
Minty says:
I don't see myself as sexual creature
no
Chris says:
if you think about a guy... or girl...( ? ) that you like?
Minty says:
I don't know, I never really have
Chris says:
can I say, I think you're missing out
Minty says:
lol
I get that all the time
Chris says:
you're an attractive girl, you could easily get a boyfriend
Minty says:
thanks
Chris says:
IF lol
if you were slightly more chillaxed lol
Minty says:
chillaxed?
Chris says:
yeah!
Minty says:
about what?
Chris says:
about sex - it's kind of a big deal you know
Minty says:
I just don't see that part at all
Chris says:
do you find girls attractive or guys?
Minty says:
that must be what makes me scary lol
I do like guys
guess I don't see me the way others do so I never think about it lol
Chris says:
I don't think you're scary - I think you're in your shell and it could take months or years for a guy to pull you out of it - and most guys wouldn't have the patience or stand getting rejected..
Minty says:
makes sense
Chris says:
if I was a regular guy on a dating site, id think aw shes nice but shes never going to want to do anything
Minty says:
maybe... I never said I wouldn't, just that I don't much care lol
I think there are vastly more important things
Chris says:
but.. but.. you signed up for a dating site
Minty says:
but that is just me
to meet friends
Chris says:
why are you so disinterested when you made the effort to meet people
Minty says:
maybe se if anything more developed lol
Chris says:
guys don't want to meet friends and speak for years before possibly maybe going for a drink
Minty says:
I have no idea
Chris says:
the two girls i went on a date with in the three weeks ive been on here id spoken to for 2 days. ya need to get out there and meet people Minty
Minty says:
I'd be willing to go out and do stuff, I'm not a total hermit lol
Chris says:
the problem is u come across just not bothered at all
because ur not
Minty says:
I'm not bothered about sex
Chris says:
so theres not really much point being on a specialist site for guys to want to find bigger girls
have you ever kissed a guy?
Minty says:
so basically then unless I'm willing to shag like a rabbit I should just kill myself then!
no I haven't
Chris says:
well no offence but you dont exactly seem happy from your profile
Minty says:
none taken, trust me
Chris says:
good luck, its all i can say
Minty says:
I'm wondering why I'm bothering
Chris says:
me too
Minty says:
you are about the sixth guy that has said similar thingd to me in the past two weeks
Chris says:
yes. it's obviously just that all men are the same and we're all pigs
that's probably it
Minty says:
I never said that, and I'll thank you to stop putting words in my mouth!
Chris says:
I get the feeling you're a feminist
Minty says:
and?
Chris says:
so you think that women are superior to men
and you claim to be straight
Minty says:
did I say that? no
I just refuse to allo wmen to dictate to me the things I do
allow men
Chris says:
have you considered looking at yourself, what you *really* like, maybe you'll find happiness if you step outside. there are a lot of pretty ladies in the world for you to meet
{he went "Appear Offline" at this point so I have no idea if he got these messages or not... I hope so!}
Minty said (16:14):
lol... I'm not gay
and FUCK YOU!!
Minty said (16:22):
you have to be the most arrogant prick I've ever spoken to... not only are you insulting and incredibly rude, you are also talking out of your arsehole! It
Minty said (16:25):
It's men like you that make me glad I am single... if ever someone would turn someone lesbian it's a total wanker like you. I'm just really glad that all men are not like you... I'm glad you dumped your ex, at least now ahe is free of the manipulative tosser that is you.
Minty said (16:26):
If anyone needs good luck for the future pal it's you... you are the one that hates being single... and if you carry on treating people in the shitty way you do now you're going to be a very lonely old man! I can only say that it will serve you fucking right HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
What a total bastard! How dare he speak to me like this, and I've known him for about thirty minutes!!
Needless to say he has been blocked at MSN and also at the site... just as well he lives in Yorkshire, had he been nearer I might have tried to get some horse manure through his letter box or something LOL!
I have also amended my profile, it now reads like this:
| General Information |
| Hi, my name is Araminta, but people just call me Minty. Militant feminist... closet lesbian... misandrist... scary... abnormal, none of these actually describe me (although all have been thrown at me in the past by men that fail to understand the complex creature that is me... pity them, they are idiots lol). Those that *do* know me describe me as fun-loving, honest, accepting, loving, funny, loyal, helpful, caring and gentle with a dry wit and a good sarcastic comeback. I'm a fairly laid back biped, and am slow to anger (but when I do get up a full head of steam it's best to stand back and just watch me go... just don't get caught up in the fracas and you'll be fine). I love, watching baseball and tennis, cheesy horror/monster movies, rock/metal music, cats, being Goth, cemeteries and my family. I hate football, garlic, the colour beige, parsnips, rude people, R&B, traffic jams, summer heat and earwigs. |
| Appearance |
| I'm 5'10 barefoot, so am tall for a woman, have green eyes (proper green, not hazel green) and they are my best feature, wear glasses and have light brown hair. I am always in black and rarely wear heels as I find them uncomfortable (plus they give me the height of a giant and I tend to intimidate people even more than normal... though don't get me wrong, sometimes intimidating people is a good thing haha). I love long skirts and don't wear trousers as I find them uncomfortable, and I guess my style of dress would be best described as Goth-casual. |
| Looking for |
| Good question... a friend that is nice, respectful and doesn't talk to me like crap? Someone that is not a sex maniac and is interested in what is between my ears rather than between my legs (I've had guys tell me I should just have sex as I don't know what I'm missing... they fail to understand I don't care! Any man that thinks pressuring someone into doing things they don't want to do is a good thing can just leave me the hell alone already!) Friendship is the most important thing for me at present... regardless of how wonderful a guy looks if I can't stand being in his company then there is nothing there for me! If something more develops through friendship, cool... I'm ruling nothing out, but for me friendship comes first. I admit to liking tall men, but that is purely because I myself am tall. Jerks with one-track minds need not apply! (I do have the phone number of a brothel, though, for those that want/need it... joke). |
If I meet no one I am totally fine with that... I'd rather be alone than be used as some kind of easy legover for douchebags! I may not have much confidence, but I do have a sense of pride!!
