... I don't seem to be meeting anyone that I actually get on with, so why waste my money?!
I met another guy earlier, another black guy but he was 6'6" and seemed nice so I thought I'd give it a chance and see about being friends. Big mistake **sigh**
Yet again I was more or less called a liar regarding my lack of relationships/sexual experience. Then the guy seemed to get annoyed when I said my webcam was broken so I couldn't turn it on and let him see me (it's not but I didn't want to turn it on and couldn't think of a good excuse) and he stopped talking to me using the chat function at the dating site... I waited about half an hour and no reply so I said I was going. I then sent a message to him at the site saying I was sorry if I said anything wrong (not sure why I did that, I just hate the thought of people thinking badly of me and I was raised with manners). He sent me a reply saying that I'd said nothing to upset him... and leaving me his mobile phone number! I'm sorry but I'm not spending my money phoning someone that a) I don't know and b) that ignores me for about an hour all told rather than talk to me (he also ignored me on MSN so I said I was signing out as there was no point my staying there to talk to myself!).
Whatever happened to chatting to someone and getting to know them in private messages and at MSN before you expect them to phone you or turn on webcams? Is it too much to ask to start as friends and see if anything develops from there? I thought that was the way people got into relationships... start off slowly and see what happens. I never knew you were meant to know within hours of one half-hearted conversation that you wanted something serious!!
Seriously, why am I bothering... in the past few weeks I've been called a liar, been asked highly personal questions regarding my reproductive abilities, been told I'm a bullshitter, been called scary and been told I should have sex to "be normal"... is this the best I can do? Do I really want to settle for any of the "boils on the backside of humanity" that I have met in the past few weeks? No, I really do not!
I think this is going to be the end of my internet dating site experience... I shan't be renewing either of the subscriptions (which in total amount to £30 a month). I'd rather set fire to the money than keep talking to jerks and douchebags that are not worthy of my time!
I met another guy earlier, another black guy but he was 6'6" and seemed nice so I thought I'd give it a chance and see about being friends. Big mistake **sigh**
Yet again I was more or less called a liar regarding my lack of relationships/sexual experience. Then the guy seemed to get annoyed when I said my webcam was broken so I couldn't turn it on and let him see me (it's not but I didn't want to turn it on and couldn't think of a good excuse) and he stopped talking to me using the chat function at the dating site... I waited about half an hour and no reply so I said I was going. I then sent a message to him at the site saying I was sorry if I said anything wrong (not sure why I did that, I just hate the thought of people thinking badly of me and I was raised with manners). He sent me a reply saying that I'd said nothing to upset him... and leaving me his mobile phone number! I'm sorry but I'm not spending my money phoning someone that a) I don't know and b) that ignores me for about an hour all told rather than talk to me (he also ignored me on MSN so I said I was signing out as there was no point my staying there to talk to myself!).
Whatever happened to chatting to someone and getting to know them in private messages and at MSN before you expect them to phone you or turn on webcams? Is it too much to ask to start as friends and see if anything develops from there? I thought that was the way people got into relationships... start off slowly and see what happens. I never knew you were meant to know within hours of one half-hearted conversation that you wanted something serious!!
Seriously, why am I bothering... in the past few weeks I've been called a liar, been asked highly personal questions regarding my reproductive abilities, been told I'm a bullshitter, been called scary and been told I should have sex to "be normal"... is this the best I can do? Do I really want to settle for any of the "boils on the backside of humanity" that I have met in the past few weeks? No, I really do not!
I think this is going to be the end of my internet dating site experience... I shan't be renewing either of the subscriptions (which in total amount to £30 a month). I'd rather set fire to the money than keep talking to jerks and douchebags that are not worthy of my time!
